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“It’s as though I were living at last in my eyes, as I have always dreamed of doing, and I think then I know why I’ve come here: to see, and so to go out against new things—oh god how easily—like air in a breeze. It’s true there are moments—foolish moments, ecstasy on a tree stump—when I’m all but gone, scattered I like to think like seed…”
William Gass, In the Heart of the Heart of the Country
(Photo: Brad Ewell)
Guest Post by Sherry Espinosa -- The Identity Box
Earlier this year, I heard the words “adoptee” and “adoptee trauma” for the first time.
Why You Should Read Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors
I’m writing about this book because I can’t stop thinking about it.
The Letter That Followed Two Weeks Later -- Always It Comes Back to Money
This is the hardest thing I have ever tried to do.
Letter Home -- 21-Year-Old Drop-Out Me Tries To Explain Myself to My Parents
You have always told me how beautiful I am and how lucky you were to get me. I think I was (am) afraid by this seemingly boundless potential that was handed me—was I a princess who deserved everything? Sensibility told me no. So did that mean I was basically nothing? Sensibility was speechless.
Adopted People, Writing, Tornado, and the Still Point
Stillness is our breath, our heart, our body, where we reside. Tornado is the mind, a place of stories and of others.
On the First 46 Pages of David Shih's Chinese Prodigal A Memoir in Eight Arguments
I can’t talk about David’s book as a whole here because that would be like trying to explain New York City to you in a single breath.
Guest Blog Post by Andy Wallis--Chameleon Wally
Chameleons change the colour of their skin to suit their environment and blend in.
To the 18 Year Old Who Isn't Feeling That Great About Herself and Life
It's one thing to live your life and do the best that you can. It’s another thing to feel like you’re a train on the edge of flying off the tracks.
Chapter One of My New Book, To Be Real
The other day some social workers were talking to me about You Don’t Look Adopted. One of the women asked, When do you think you’ll heal?