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“It’s as though I were living at last in my eyes, as I have always dreamed of doing, and I think then I know why I’ve come here: to see, and so to go out against new things—oh god how easily—like air in a breeze. It’s true there are moments—foolish moments, ecstasy on a tree stump—when I’m all but gone, scattered I like to think like seed…”
William Gass, In the Heart of the Heart of the Country
(Photo: Brad Ewell)
Being Adopted And Wanting To Go Home Is A Buzz Kill
When I first left home at 18 to go to college, I was back home within a year. When I left again, and then again, and then again to go to college, I kept coming home.
Leaving Home When You Are Adopted
I've been living in my childhood town now for two years, and in a month or so I'll pack up and go back to California.
ANGER, WRITING, AND THE LIGHTNING STRIKE OF TRUTH
When a student warns me ahead of time, "Sorry this is so angry," I feel excited. Something real is about to happen.
When You Think You've Hit Bottom, And Then Things Get Worse
Someone wrote to me that things were bad, really bad. Not only had he been hurt on his job, but when he went back he saw how terrible the working conditions really were, and so he quit.
Guest Post By Brad Ewell On Writer's Block And The Price Of The Ticket
On Tuesday in our weekly group writing class, Anne talked about how she’d had, for a lack of a better word, writer's block after the death of her adoptive dad.
Adoptee Fatigue (Waves Of Exhaustion)
To be both one thing and another thing at the same time inherently takes more energy that being just one thing.
The Tim Ferriss Show, Dr. Sue Johnson, Brad's Photo, And Roiling Adoptee Guts
I was listening to a recent double-guest episode of the Tim Ferriss Show because I like to hear what Seth Godin has to say about life.
5 Pieces Of Advice For Adopted People Who Want To Write Their Story
Brad Ewell is a wonderful writer and photographer. He and I are playing a game: for a week he will send me one of his photographs every day, and I will write a corresponding blog post.
Bird And the Psycho Baby Woodchuck
The mother woodchuck started lumbering around the yard when the dandelions bloomed. She methodically ate the flowers like a happy furry vacuum cleaner with whiskers.
Why You Can't Fail At Writing
I had an idea about how to show people just how easy it is for them to be wonderful writers, so I decided to play a game in my classes.
The Need That Fucks Up Adopted People
I'm trying to figure something out. Why are so many adopted people so deeply unhappy?
What I Really Want To Say Is
Imagine if we could only say what we really meant?
That is all for now.